Monday, August 31, 2009

Of Note

We're happy. 
We're healthy.
We're sleeping (kind of).
We're being well-fed, thanks to many good friends and family.
We've ventured outside - more than once.
We made it through 3-hours of church!
We're tired...
But-
we're surviving!

A few other good things to report:
* We forgot to share the birth statistics:  Benjamin David Goodwin was born at 1:51pm on Tuesday, August 11, 2009; weight - 6 lbs (exactly); length - 19 3/4".
* Benjamin seems to be getting into a routine - lots of eating, sleeping and other things which shall not be named (but, dude, they include large quantities of icky stuff).
* Weight (of baby) continues to increase
* Weight (of mommy) continues to decrease.  In fact, I'm 8 lbs away from pre-pregnancy weight!


Today's picture update:  Long Fingers!

Saturday, August 22, 2009

Benjamin Turns 11

Hello, my blogging friends... it's been a while!

I'm not even going to go into the insane details of the last 11 days but it involves a lot of 6-hour marathon feedings, nipple shields (my mortal enemy), messy diaper tales, and a gazillion trips to the pediatrician & lactation center.  In spite of it all, we love our little guy and wanted to share some pics of his first few days.

Hope you enjoy!


Friday, August 14, 2009

Friday's Top 10 List: Clean

Well, the baby is finally here and there is a lot to do! With that, I give you the third installment of President Hinckley's 6 B's. In the April 2007 General Conference, he stated, "You cannot partake of the ways of the world. You must be above that." For that reason, he urges us to:

BE CLEAN
  1. Refrain from gossiping because it damages the soul.
  2. Failure to express yourself in language that is clean marks you as one whose vocabulary is extremely limited.
  3. Do not take the name of the Lord in vain.
  4. Be friendly with all people but select with great care those whom you wish to have close to you.
  5. Be clean and neat and orderly.
  6. Don't take in anything that can harm your body.
  7. Don't waste your time in destructive entertainment.
  8. Be clean - in both body AND mind.
  9. Dress to a clean, modest standard.
  10. Always remember to stand in holy places.

Wednesday, August 12, 2009

Benjamin David Goodwin

In an effort to keep Michelle's readership updated and informed as to the latest baby developments, I thought that I would write my inaugural post to our (read: Michelle's) blog.

As all of you no doubt read, we finished all of our preparations and left for the hospital at about 10:45 am yesterday (I am not sure about the somewhat rested part--Michelle was in bed much earlier than I was--mostly my own fault) Anyway, upon arriving at the hospital, Michelle went straight to triage, where she had some tests done and an ultrasound taken, while I did my best sherpa impression and lugged all of our various bags up to the room where we would be staying.
We waited in triage for a while, but finally, at 1:45 pm, the doctor arrived and we made our way back into the OR. I donned some attractive while coveralls, and the nurse put a little cap over my baseball hat (I wanted to take off the baseball hat, but the nurse insisted that I just put the cap over it--so the pictures look a little funny, but honestly, that was the last thing on my mind at the time).

Upon entering the OR, there were a lot bright lights and Michelle was in the process of receiving a spinal block that would eventually numb her from the chest down. I quickly put my camera on a table in one corner of the OR so that it would be ready when I needed it as well as a newly purchased video camera, which kept me up way too late the night before as I quickly read and tried to figure out the numerous features that I am sure justified the wallet-lightening price.

As the surgery began, the doctor and nurses placed a shield between Michelle's head and her abdomen, so that we could not really see the "opening up" portion of the surgery. The anesthesiologist was near Michelle's head, with me and we tried to keep her as comfortable as possible, me by holding her hand, him by filling her full of Oxytocin. As little Benjamin was about to be born, the anesthesiologist took my video camera and recorded the delivery, while I comforted Michelle (read: hid behind the shield).

After the delivery, a nurse brought little Ben back to meet his parents and I promptly took the video camera and followed him all around the OR, as he was weighed, measured, cleaned, etc. Afterwards, Michelle, Ben and I posed for a couple of pictures (taken by the anesthesiologist) and then Michelle was taken up to our room and I carried little Ben close behind.

The rest of the day was full of many tests, some nursing (Ben is not the greatest eater in the world) and many family visitors (thank you all for coming).

Unfortunately, the night brought very little sleep for Michelle and I, although Ben did sleep somewhat between us waking him up to attempt to feed. He is getting better at eating, but most times it takes him awhile to figure out what he is doing.

Anyway, I am sure you all are tired of my rambling, here are the pictures that you have really been waiting for!

Tuesday, August 11, 2009

Oh, Baby: The Final Countdown

Bodies are somewhat rested.  

Bags are packed.

Cameras are charged.

Departure time is imminent.

Here goes nothing...

see you on the other side!

Monday, August 10, 2009

Countdown: Day 1

Goodwin Updates

Dave: Researching the best model for a HD camcorder to document the birth, he invested much of his day in visits to local electronic stores.  Stayed up very very late, cleaning up the memory cards, charging the camcorder (and the digital cameras), reading the detailed owner's manual and packing for the hospital adventure.

Michelle: Worked all day, feverishly trying to wrap up all the loose ends at work.  Found out that my anesthesiologist is rated one of the Top Docs by Seattle Magazine - fabulous news!  Went for a nice walk in the park - and started feeling some major pressure at the 2nd mile.  Could it be contractions?  Hmm... perhaps I should stop?  Had turkey club sandwiches for dinner, which totally hit the spot.  For dessert, had a hearty PBJ around 10pm because I knew I'd need to build up my energy reserves for tomorrow... the first fasting I've done since pregnancy started. 

The Boy:  Chugging along, as usual. 

Friday, August 07, 2009

Countdown: Day 4 (Nesting Fun)

GOODWIN UPDATES
Dave:  Currently working hard on some crazy legal cases.

The Boy:  Gearing up for the big day by growing and growing and growing.  My burgeoning stomach is starting to resemble that part in the movie, "Alien".  Anyway, I digress...

Michelle:  I suppose that nesting is in high gear at this point; I was in a baking and cleaning frenzy today!

After moving some more baby things into the nursery (aka: the multi-purpose room), I started the laundry, picked up the living room and made the bed.  Then, onto more fun tasks such as re-arranging a few cupboards, cleaning off the refrigerator and organizing & packing up the organic vegetables from Tuesday's shipment.  

I also got into one of those moods where I wanted to bake, so I whipped up a spinach ricotta pie and some triple-chocolate ranger cookies.  My SIL, Rachel, and her two little girls came over and helped me eat the finished products.  The pie is similar to a quiche, so I thought I'd share a couple of photos; it's a really savory dish that I adore.  If you like quiche, you have to try this one!

SPINACH RICOTTA PIE
1 dinner pastry
1 lb fat-free ricotta cheese
3 eggs, beaten
1 pkg frozen, chopped spinach (thawed & drained)
1 T dried parsley
1 small onion, finely chopped
dash freshly ground pepper
1/2 t salt
1/2 t dried basil
3 T whole wheat flour
1/2 c grated cheddar cheese
1/2 c parmesan cheese
dash nutmeg
1 c light sour cream
paprika

Line pan with pastry.  Saute seasonings with onions, parsley and spinach in 1/2 T olive oil.  Combine onion/spinach mixture with cheeses, eggs, flour and nutmeg; mix well and fill pastry-lined pie pan.  Top with sour cream, spreading to edges of pan.  Sprinkle with paprika.  Bake at 375* for 35-40 minutes, or until set and firm.  Cool on wire rack for 15 minutes before serving.   (Yields 4-6 servings.) 

Friday's Top 10 List: Smart

Missed last week's Top 10 (thank you, insanely hot weather), but continuing now with the 6 B's. Some of these ideas come straight from President Hinckley's talk and others are ideas that I found fit well with the theme.

BE SMART
  1. The Lord wants you to educate your minds.
  2. The Lord wants you to educate your hands.
  3. Try new things and hone your interests.
  4. READ!
  5. Whatever field you choose, you must train yourselves.
  6. Seek for the best schooling available.
  7. Become a workman of integrity in the world that lies ahead of you.
  8. Always be open to new opportunities (jobs, scholarships, networking, etc).
  9. Know your passions and try to find a way to use that in a career.
  10. Be willing to sacrifice small things for the greater reward that comes later.

And the benefits of being smart?

  • You will be happier
  • You will be a better spouse, employee, citizen
  • You will bring honor to the Church
  • You will be generously blessed because of your training

Thursday, August 06, 2009

Countdown: Day 5

Goodwin Updates

Dave: Played a double-header softball game last night. Was brilliant and had an amazing play at home plate, but is, thus, very tired this morn.

Michelle: Am tired too. But seriously giddy that the high temp today is forecast at 68 beautiful degrees... during the 1st week of August. Pure. Bliss.

Had some seriously swollen feet last night during the double-header, like the supremely hideous kind I wanted to curl up in the bottom of my warm-up pants and hide beneath the bleachers. We are talking ugly stuff here.

After softball, we came home and I promptly elevated those puppies skyward while watching "Great White Appetite" courtesy of the Discovery Channel. As the gigantic shark bobbed and weaved to catch a carpet-shaped seal decoy, I forgot about my troubled feet and enjoyed the show. Confession time: I'm more than a bit obsessed with Shark Week, but that's a story for another day.

Hoping for a less swollen day today... fingers crossed.

The Boy: Poor kid suffered through the game last night because I stuffed my self into a pair of pre-pregnancy warm-up pants (everything else was in the wash). Honestly, I couldn't believe I got them on so easily. But... yes, the waist was just a bit TIGHT. Never fear - he's still extremely active this morning, so I think he survived the tight fit.

Tuesday, August 04, 2009

Countdown: Day 7 (The Last Appointment)

Today is my last appointment. La la la. For prenatal stuff, of course. At the clinic.

Today is the last time I will have to sit in the waiting room, hoping the nurse will call me in so that I can rush to the restroom... at the clinic.

Today is the last time I have to pee in a cup... at the clinic.

Today is the last time they will check to see if the head has moved into position... at the clinic (which, unless a miracle has occurred, the head is STILL cozied up in my right side, just beneath my chest).

Today is the last time that I will have my fundal height measured... at the clinic.

Today is the last time I have to jump on the scale for my nurse, who will jot down little, secret notes but doesn't share... at the clinic.

Oh, and there is this one little First:
Today is the first time I will see a new doctor... at the clinic. (The clinic arranges appointments with other doctors just in case my regular doc can't make it to my delivery, and one of her colleagues has to fill in. As it's a c-section now, that better not happen because I have serious reservations about anyone else slicing me open but Dr. S.)

I like noting these series of little "lasts". Not that they were terrible, or even a little bad. In fact, last week one of Dr. S's nurses discovered that we're both LDS, so we had a lovely interchange about that similarity (as in, "Are you?"... "Yeah, I am too!"... "Neat-o!"). No, the thing with the lasts is simply this: I'm just happy to not have them anymore.

It marks the beginning of the end.

Just another step closer to August 11th.

When the real fun begins.

Monday, August 03, 2009

Countdown: Day 8

Goodwin Updates

Dave: At 6am, I dropped him off at the church so he could live it up with the large crowd of cacophonous 12-year-old scouts at Fire Mountain. After all, this is (by far) his favorite scouting activity of the year (emphasis has been added to denote extra-thick, dripping-with-sacrcasm, tone).

I just talked to him during lunch and he was scaling a climbing wall that's off-limits, but who is really going to stop one of the leaders? Really. Bring it on, Fire Mountain Rule Enforcers.

What better way to prepare for daddyhood than to be in those serious testerone-y surroundings?

Michelle: I'm still doing important library work (organizing my supplies closet and all of my desk drawers) while trying with all of my might to fit into any pair of "shoes" that look reasonably professional* each morning.  And oh yeah, that's been fun. 

This same principle also applies to my clothing options. While I appreciate all of the awesome maternity clothes I received from my sister-in-law, Rachel, her baby was born this March - so most of her clothes are winter-appropriate, rather than for a record-breaking, blazing-hot, Death Valley-like summer.

Also, I've continued to try and eat healthy but here are a list of random cravings that have popped into my head throughout the day:
  • grapes (not so bad)
  • strawberries (not so bad)
  • apple fritter
  • 3 Musketeers bar
  • anything McDonald's
  • bagel
  • grape juice
  • peanut butter & crackers
  • Ho-Hos

I'm sure there are some items missing from the list, but these were some of the big cravings that STUCK. As you can tell, I feel like I've been thinking about food every single minute of the day. I did cave when I found a jar of PB & some wholegrain crackers in my desk drawer - yea for an effective cleaning project! Hopefully these cravings will cease soon... otherwise I'm in BIG trouble.

The Boy: Serious groove-fest going on inside. Like, all day long. I guess that means that he's getting so big that there isn't a lot of room left to manuever.

Either that, or he's going to come out, singing & dancing to ABBA's "Dancing Queen" with Lucy & Alice.  Oh, heavens.

* I'm coming close to grabbing my Adidas sports sandals; they're the only thing that has a little wiggle room left and who's really going to point out the unprofessionalism of said sandals when I am due next week?

Sunday, August 02, 2009

General Malaise

Today I am ready for the end.

I have been so blessed with a relatively easy, uncomplicated pregnancy (well, besides the icky version thingy). I never thought this day would come but everyone kept telling me otherwise.

In the last week, I've been telling Dave I feel like a bloated toad.

I'm sure that last week's weather played an important role in getting to this current state. As the forecast played out, by Wednesday we had highs reaching into the shocking, triple-digit range (enough to nearly kill off a native Pacific Northwesterner, pregnant or otherwise). And, the rest of the week decided to stay stubbornly mired in the mid to upper-90s. With very few homes here equipped with A/C (including ours), this has not been a banner week for me.

And yet, there's more! The weather did "cool" down to the low 90s today, but I woke up with a freak-of-nature migraine. I attempted the church thing, but only made it through sacrament meeting before throwing in the towel. I spent the majority of the day in our dark living room, catching glimpses of whatever movie was on FX when I periodically woke from my funk-induced slumber. Oh, and yeah - the house was still blazing hot.

So, while I don't like to complain, I wanted to share a glimpse into this day: t-minus 9 and counting of my pregnancy... and, the reason that I'm ready to be DONE.

I never, ever thought I'd say it, but bring on the c-section.

Friday, July 24, 2009

Friday's Top Ten List: Gratitude

I have a plain, white-paper copy of President Hinckley’s 6B’s on my bulletin board at work. It was typed in a fancy font, which should catch my eye but the piece of paper is pretty small (3”x5”). Most of the time, it blends into the muted landscape of bulletin board monotony: pictures, newsletters, handouts, cards, phone lists.

Every so often, I actually look at it. On rare occasion, I actually read it. Today was one of those rare occasions. And the reading of said plain paper note made me stop and think.

Today, that little paper made me think it’s high time to be better. For that reason, I’m dedicating my next 6 weeks of Top Ten lists to each of the bullet items. Below, I present the 1st installment of the 6 “B’s” and the top ten ways I can be more “B”.

Enjoy, be inspired, be - I dare you!

BE GRATEFUL

  1. Walk with gratitude in your hearts
  2. Be thankful for the wonderful blessings which are yours
  3. Be grateful for the tremendous opportunities that you have
  4. Be thankful for your parents
  5. Let them know that you are grateful
  6. Say thank you to your mother and father
  7. Say thank you to your friends
  8. Say thank you to your “teachers”
  9. Express appreciation to everyone who does you a favor or assists you in any way
  10. Thank the Lord for His goodness to you

Wednesday, July 22, 2009

The Kink

kink
Pronunciation: \ˈkiŋk\
Function: noun
Etymology: Dutch; akin to Middle Low German kinke kink
Date: 1678
1: a short tight twist or curl caused by a doubling or winding of something upon itself

2: a mental or physical peculiarity : eccentricity, quirk b: whim
3: a clever unusual way of doing something
4: a cramp in some part of the body
5: an imperfection likely to cause difficulties in the operation of something

Definition #5 applies to this lovely post. (If you have a good sense of humor, the others fit too.)

A few weeks ago, I had an OB appointment with another doctor in our clinic. They do this so that, on the off-chance that your doctor is not able to get to you when you're in labor, you will be somewhat comfortable with her on-call replacement. During this appointment, we chatted briefly and she did the usual exam, informing me that THE BOY was head-down, engaged and ready to go. Thumbs-up to one happy, pregnant lady.

Fast forward two weeks, my OB discovered that her colleague was mistaken... big time. The other doctor had mistaken the head for his little rear; I'm sure it's an easy mistake to make, but hence:

THE KINK.

Our sweet BOY had decided to get cozy the unconventional way - who wants to be head down when you can just kick back in the womb, heads-up and bum wedged into my pelvis? I'm sure the Frank Breech position (at left) is a much more comfortable way to percolate, to be sure. Doesn't it look oh so cozy?

Suddenly, my easy pregnancy changed - drastically.

I had two options: try to get THE BOY to do an acrobatic flip in utero -OR- move forward with the dreaded c-section. As I wanted desperately to go the normal route, I chose the ECV (external cephalic version), in hopes that we could avoid The Incision. However, and you heard it here first - the ECV is NOT a fun procedure.

Suddenly, I had an appointment two days later in the hospital's Fetal & Maternity Center triage unit. As it was a bit of an emergency, the doctor scheduled it on Sunday which meant we missed church - which then caused a good number of folks to wonder if we had gone into labor early. While that definitely was not the case, the procedure involved a lot of pain, pressure, pushing and labored breathing.

Folks, as I mentioned above, this was not fun. Also, not successful. After all of the manipulation and work, my doctor patted my belly & playfully exclaimed to the sweet, stubborn & immovable BOY (and I quote), "C'mon, you little turd."

So, in the end, a c-section is in my not-too-distant future. Tuesday, August 11th, to be exact. At 1:30pm. I suppose doing things the easy or normal way is not THE BOY's way.

And I'm sure this new thing called Parenthood (aka: Life) will continue to throw kinks into our plans for many years to come.

Friday, July 17, 2009

Friday's Top 10 List: Good Reads!

I must have books on the brain because this is the third post this month involving books.

As a "super-hip" library grad student, I did the logical librarian-y thing to do, which was to log my personal collection of books onto a digital catalog, courtesty of LibraryThing. In reviewing this list from a few years ago, I have a decent list of books from which to choose. Taking a cue from my little catalog, as well as some more recent readings, I thought it would be a great Reader's Advisory (or Book Recommendation) list for all of my blogging friends - especially since it is quite conducive and worthy of a "Top 10" post.

My current read is "Tess of the d'Urbervilles" which was penned by one of the authors from the list below; so far, I'm really enjoying it.  So, whether you are trying to find a good book to take to the beach or curl up with on your couch, you are bound to find something that is a good fit for your reading interests. Enjoy!

  1. Memoirs of a Geisha - Arthur Golden
  2. Lovely Bones - Alice Sebold
  3. Heart of Darkness - Joseph Conrad
  4. The Joy Luck Club - Amy Tan
  5. A Tree Grows in Brooklyn - Betty Smith
  6. The Big Stone Gap series (cheating a little because this encompasses 4 books) - Adriana Trigiani
  7. The Secret Life of Bees - Sue Monk Kidd
  8. The Return of the Native - Thomas Hardy
  9. What Remains - Caroline Radziwill
  10. Sweetwater Creek - Anne Rivers Siddons

Wednesday, July 15, 2009

30 Days & Counting...

Belly Photo Update @ 35 Weeks

August 14th is now 30 days away, which means I am officially at the 8-month mark (cue those choir of angels!). The third trimester has proven to be quite a challenge. Perhaps I was just spoiled by the lack of issues and blessing of high energy during the first two trimesters, but I am definitely starting to feel ready to be done with this pregnancy stuff.

Things I am Looking Forward To:
Meeting & hanging out with The Boy
Putting the shower gifts to good use
Getting feeling back in my hands
Sleeping without the aid of the Pillow
Sleeping on my back
Or stomach
Working out without that extra weight
Training for a half-marathon
Tying my shoes without getting light-headed
Doing anything without that belly
Eating lunchmeat – hello, Subway!
Reintroduction of my ankles
And cute, normal-sized feet
Wearing my old shoes… oh, how I’ve missed you
Wearing my wedding ring… I’ve missed you most of all

Things I will Miss:
Being pregnant – well, until 5 weeks ago, I loved every minute of it
Feeling baby groove inside me
Wearing cute maternity clothes; sounds crazy, but I have a nice collection of awesome & stylish mama clothes, courtesy of my sister-in-law

Tuesday, July 14, 2009

Banana Bread ~ with a Twist

Every time I go to Costco, I grab a bag of bananas.  I love them when they are still a little green and have a bit of a bite to them - and I have the best intentions of eating many in that perfect state of tastiness.

However, after they become ripened to a deep yellow... and then freckles start to appear, I will have nothing to do with eating them in that "state".  Dave gets excited about that state because it means banana bread, his personal favorite, is in the not-too- distant future.

Today has been one of those days.  It's my day off, I had a bunch of ripe bananas and have very little on the To-Do list.  After some quick cleaning, I grabbed the cookbook and pulled out the necessary ingredients.

In our house, we've tried to eat a little healthier in the last few months: less sugar, more organic fruits & veggies and more whole grains.   I use a recipe from a Splenda cookbook, but make it even healthier by replacing the all-purpose flour with 100% whole-wheat flour (and some dough enhancer to make it fluff up nicely).  To some, this hearty recipe may sound unappealing, but I've tried it out on many people who are pleasantly surprised by the moist, nutty goodness and the rich flavor of the bananas.

Banana-Walnut Bread

(Recipe courtesy of The Splenda World of Sweetness)
Recipe Tip:  This banana bread is good for you in many ways.  The bananas supply potassium and dietary fiber, and you'll get omega-3 fatty acids from the walnuts.  What you won't get is a lot of cholesterol as canola oil and buttermilk stand in for butter.  Good banana bread starts with well-ripened bananas, so hold off making this until your fruit is speckled all over - but not black, as black bananas give baked goods an "off taste".

INGREDIENTS
  • Nonstick cooking spray for the pan
  • 1 1/3 c whole-wheat flour
  • 1 1/2 tsp dough enhancer (leave me a comment if you need the recipe for this amazing stuff!)
  • 1 tsp baking powder
  • 1/2 tsp baking soda
  • Pinch of salt
  • 1/2 c Splenda (granulated) - or unsweetened applesauce, if you prefer
  • 1 1/4 c very ripe bananas, mashed (from ~4 large bananas)
  • 1/3 c buttermilk (I use non-fat milk + 1 tsp vinegar)
  • 1 T canola oil
  • 2 tsp vanilla
  • 1/4 c walnuts, finely chopped
DIRECTIONS
  1. Position the rack in the center of the oven and preheat to 350F.  Lightly spray the inside of an 8 1/2" X 4 1/2" loaf pan with the cooking spray.
  2. Sift together the flour, baking powder, baking soda and salt into a medium bowl.  Add in the Splenda (if using applesauce, add in the next step).  Combine the bananas, buttermilk, oil, and vanilla in another bowl and mix well.  Add to the dry mixture and stir until just combined.  Stir in the walnuts.  Spread the batter evenly in the prepared pan.
  3. Bake until a wooden toothpick inserted in the center of the loaf comes out clean (45-55 minutes).  Let cool in the pan for 10 minutes on a wire rack.  Invert the loaf onto the rack, remove the pan and let cool completely.  Cut into slices and serve.

Monday, July 13, 2009

Oh, Canada

With the impending arrival of our baby, there is a long list of things we've been meaning to do before the big day.  One of those was visiting one of Dave's BYU roommates that just moved from Germany to Vancouver, BC... last year.  (My, how we love to procrastinate!)   

On Friday afternoon, we packed up the car with all of our necessary gear, including our nearly-new passports... I even smuggled in an U.S. orange accidentally (gasp!).

Surprisingly, the drive up went by so quickly; we didn't realize it but the trip is less than two hours from our front door to theirs... made us think we need to do that trip more often!

As we drove up to the address, we had to unlatch the gate and follow a long, tree-lined driveway to their house.  They live on about 10 acres of lush property, including a hobby farm (for which the Canadian government gives them a very nice tax credit).   As we emerged from the car, we were greeted by three smiling, energetic kids, rushing about the yard on bikes.  After a few tricks were displayed for us, Mike & Lynette gave us a tour of the home and the grounds.

A tour of the barn included a look at their goats and a grey mare, then we wandered through fruit trees and passed a dried creek.  A pet rabbit and various birds & squirrels rounded out the animals.  The property was beautiful and you can tell they've been working hard to spruce up the place.  That night, after a rousing game of Foosball, the kiddos went to bed and we stayed up late talking while Lynette put the finishing touches on her son's hockey birthday cake.

I had a rough night sleeping, but it was mostly related to the same challenges I experience at home.  In the morning, we ate a quick breakfast of cold cereal and yogurt before making our way into the big city of Vancouver along Highway 1, better known as the Trans-Canada Highway.  It was quite strange to see the Canadian flag flying high above all the buildings in the area; as we are so close to the U.S., it's hard to remember that we were not in a different state, but rather in a different country!

The other reason we had come to Canada was to visit the Arc'Teryx factory outlet - or Mecca as I jokingly referred to it.   For those unfamiliar with the brand, it is a high-end, high-quality outdoor gear company.  And the factory outlet meant the possibility of awesome deals on some amazing gear!  However, supplies move quickly there - and we must have caught them in a bit of a slump; Dave didn't find much, but he did grab a performance t-shirt for $15 that normally retails for around $55.  After I made him pose for a picture to capture this momentous occasion, we hopped back in the car for a return trip to the house and to catch the last hour of the birthday party.

Unfortunately, our trip back was not so quick or fun.  When I think of a highway that crosses an entire country, I think of a large interstate with at 3-4 lanes running each way.  This was two lanes in each direction, but it is also the only way in and out of Vancouver.   I'm not certain if there was an accident or if this is just how things are in Canada, but we sat in some pretty nasty traffic during the entire return trip.

The plan, after the birthday party, was to head to Stanley Park.  After getting everyone buckled in and heading back onto the Trans-Canada, things got even uglier, traffic-wise.  Almost as soon as we immediately merged (their merging lanes are way too short!) onto the highway, we were stuck in a snarled mess of other minivans, SUVs and sedans.  And we sat and sat.  Dave's friend is not a fan of air conditioning, so I thought I was going to die as we sat in that car in 85+F weather.  And rolling down windows didn't help much.  Eventually, we got off the highway and tried to find an alternate route parallel with the highway.  But, we soon discovered that the idea was all in vain - the cause of the traffic was due to the closure of said highway, as well as the bridge that would get us into downtown.

After some deliberations about other alternate routes, I said we could just scrap the idea for that day.  I was the only reason we were going to Stanley Park - sadly, I've never been there before.  

So, as a quick solution, we headed for a local park called Derby Reach which runs along the Fraser River.   Sadly (especially to a very pregnant lady), they had no public bathrooms available so I held back on my usual downing of the water bottle - even though it was extremely HOT.  

We hiked along some lush, green trails & wooded areas (complete with signs of a bear image and the warning "Watch Your Small Children").  After a few meltdowns from tired children and a battle with swarming mosquitos, we found a quiet bank along the river.  We stayed there for about an hour; as the children played with the mud, water & rocks, I relished the time to talk & to soak my swollen feet in that cool water!


That evening, we took Mike's family and his parents to dinner at a place called "White Spot" - a local favorite restaurant.  Dave & I both ordered the BC chicken burger with a field greens salad - oh, and thick milkshakes.  As I had been low on liquid intake all day, I figured the milkshake would help with my dehydration issues - or least cool me off.  After some quick goodbyes, we packed up the car and made it to the tiny Alder Grove border crossing in less than 20 minutes.  After a 5- minute wait, we were on US soil and headed for home under a lightning-filled night. 

Although it was a quick trip, it was nice to visit with friends and get a way from home for a bit.

Friday, July 10, 2009

Food, Friends & Baby Stuff

I have a group of girlfriends that like to get together.  Until recently, our "meetings" were few and far between due to busy lives and hectic schedules.  However, a few months ago, we decided we needed to schedule time for us, so we set a goal to make the meetings a more regular occurrence, happening every other month.   It's a nice excuse to get out, see each other and catch up on life... and we know the date well in advance so we can just schedule our busy lives around it! 

Some of our more recent "parties" have been a summer brunch at Christina's and dim sum at a favorite Chinese restaurant.   Holding with tradition, we decided to hold the next one in July - to coincide with baby shower time.

So, last night, Tamara & Christina threw a baby shower in my honor and invited many of our close girlfriends to attend.  It would be a relatively intimate group of ladies and that would guarantee some quality time with those important people. 

To be perfectly honest, I'm not a huge fan of being the center of attention... which was why this kind of shower appealed to me.  I knew it would be "about me" to a certain extent, but it would also be another fun night of catching up with friends.

Walking into Becky's house, I was excited to see all of the decorations.   The shower invitation was made to look like an adorable green onesie, a theme which was carried over to the shower's banner, table decor and prizes, as well.  Tamara even built a diaper cake, which served as a nice table decoration but will also come in handy once the Boy is here!  Christina & Tamara are both super crafty and have great taste, so the decorations were simple but perfect for this low-key party.


I'm not a huge fan of the typical baby shower games; call me weird, but I've never been a fan of guessing the flavor of melted candy bars in a diaper.   Knowing that, the girls planned three games that were much more up my alley.   Christina handed out a baby shower word scramble, which was a bit challenging but fun.  For the second "game", she handed out envelopes for the Thank-You cards; later, I was asked to draw out a card and that person won a prize.  The final game required one thing - a timer.  It was set as I started opening presents; when it sounded, the person's gift that I was opening was the winner.  Fun, easy and no sticking one's nose in a "messy" diaper... it was a good time!


After opening a wide array of amazing presents from these wonderful ladies, we spent the next couple of HOURS talking, laughing and feasting on sweet breads, fruit salad, cherries, shortbread cookies, fudge cupcakes and heavenly lemonade with fresh strawberry and orange slices.  Not until I glanced at my watch did I realized just how late it was - and I knew I wasn't the only one that needed to work or take care of children in the morning.  So, after some long goodbyes and a few more laughs, we all jumped in our cars and left for home.   



While we all may have been a little tired (and full of sugar) this morning, it was another awesome night spent with beautiful friends.

Wednesday, July 08, 2009

Life Imitating Art

In last week's post on "Love, Loss & What I Read", I mentioned a children's book that I loved called "The Little House" by Virgina Lee Burton.

Here are the lines from the first page:

Once upon a time there was a Little House way out in the country. She was a pretty Little House and she was strong and well built. The man who built her so well said, "This Little House shall never be sold for gold or silver and she will live to see our great-great-grandchildren's great-great-grandchildren living in her."

Well, it turns out, there is a real-life story about a similar house right here in Seattle. The owner, an elderly woman, refused to sell out to a developer for a hefty sum and the result was that her little cottage was subsequently surrounded by a large, commercial complex (just like the book)! Sadly, she died last June and did not have any children or grandchildren to which she could bequeath her little cottage... so it doesn't end quite like the charming little book.

ALAN BERNER / THE SEATTLE TIMES

The full news story can be found in today's Seattle Times.

Tuesday, July 07, 2009

4th of July Festivities

Typically, our 4th of July is spent as many other weekends during the summer; hanging out at Dave's grandma's house in Bellevue, lounging near the lake, barbecuing and hanging out with family. 

This year provided a change of plans - and scenery.

My sister, Kali, invited us over to a barbecue at her neighbor's house in Coupeville.  Seeing how we have not yet been over to the island, we took her up on the offer.  We soon came to find that my entire family (minus David in UT & Brent) woul be in attendance, as well.

The island I speak of is Whidbey Island, which can be reached most quickly by ferry.  Unfortunately, holiday time means long waits at the ferry terminal; this year, the news stations were predicting 2-3 hour waits in those lines.  

Fortunately, you can also get to the island by driving - it just takes a while.  But, with those lengthy delays, we thought we'd take our chances and do the drive, taking in all of that beautiful Western Washinton scenery.


We took off from Everett around 3pm (and a hot 87F), driving through scenic Snohomish and Island counties.  Turning onto Highway 20, we passed the dried tulip fields, Fidalgo Bay and deftly edged across the lofty Deception Pass bridge.  We soon discovered that Whidbey Island is a beautiful place filled with rolling fields, tall trees and sweeping views of the Puget Sound.  Eventually, we came to the quaint town of Coupeville and rolled into the party location after about a 90-minute drive - and a much cooler 70F!



We arrived just in time for the hot dogs and hamburgers to slide off the barbecue and onto people's plates.   Feasting on pasta salad, baked beans, red potato salad and fresh fruit, we were soon filled and found a nice place to rest (and recuperate from our food coma) in the afternoon sun.  The kids ran wild on the large piece of property that edged the Puget Sound; activities included two pools, volleyball, soccer, horseshoes, water balloons and a pie eating (fight) contest.


After a few hours, we had to head for home as Dave had a Sunday School lesson to prepare and we needed to get up for 9am church in the morning.  We opted for the ferry this time - we knew that it would be much less crowded with most folks in their prime firework-viewing locations.  Sure enough, we practically drove right on to the ferry with no wait and were home in less than an hour.

Dave pulled out his lesson and I turned on the TV to the local fireworks display.  As tradition held true, our part of town was lit up with large mortars, Roman candles, bottle rockets and lots of smoke - intermittently, between the bursts and explosions, you could hear the local fire engine's siren sound and they'd take off to put out another 4th of July oops.  This little "show" went on from the time we got home until the wee hours of the morning.  

Oh, the beauty & serenity of the rocket's red glare.  It was a beautiful day and a nice time spent with the family.

Happy (Belated) Independence Day to All!